I prefer November Completions. Rather then waiting until the end of the year, I spend time early in November focusing on completions that need attention. I think about what I want or need to do and the projects I’ve begun or meant to start. Then I decide what to clean up, complete and deleted before the end of the year.
It’s a powerful practice that releases old baggage and liberates energy that can be used for new ventures in the coming year. Emphasizing completion in November prepares you for the winter months and puts you in the right frame of mind to enjoy the holidays.
Here’s how to make November Completions:
- Celebrate Your Completions
Start by listing all the things you’ve already completed this year. Then take a moment to celebrate your successes and achievements. Sit back and savor how much you’ve already accomplished. Doing so will fill you with “Yes I can” energy, which will make tackling things on you to complete list much easier.
Here’s what’s on my completed list:
- I started teaching Reiki. I taught 4 Reiki 1 classes and 2 Reiki 2 classes.
- I started a Reiki healing program at Turning Point, which offers help for those in need of overcoming alcohol and drug addiction in a safe environment..
- I started a local Medical Nutrition Therapy practice in Vermont.
- I became the Chair for the Nutrition Entrepreneurs, Coaches Specialty Group.
- Define Your To-Completes
Write down the things you have yet to finish this year. Include all those lose ends — the cluttered closets and dirty car, the half finished craft projects, the e-mails or calls you’ve been meaning to make, unpaid bills and the work tasks you’ve put on hold. Think about deadlines that have passed that still need attention and the goals and intentions you set but have yet to meet.
Review various aspects of your life such as:
- Relationships and family
- Body and health
- Career and work
- Mind and personal development
Make a To-Complete list for each area. Don’t worry if some areas are harder to handle than others. That’s natural. Focus on the easy ones first. You’ll build the confidence you need to tackle the harder ones. Set aside a little time each day to work with your list. Doing so will bring clarity, momentum and energy to your life.
- Define Your Deletes
This is my favorite part of the completion process. Write down everything you want to jettison from your life. Ask yourself: What can I let go of? Include:
- Relationships that aren’t good for you and people who don’t nurture you
- Belongings you don’t need, use, or love
- Commitments and obligations that drain you
- Beliefs about yourself and your life that no longer serve you
- Habits that are holding you back
Then think about what you can do to release and bring closure to the items on your delete list. Listen to your intuition. That still, small voice will help you find your truth and understand what’s right for you.
Just as a snake sheds its skin, we must shed our past over and over again, —Jack Kornfield
Kornfield reminds us that to grow and glow we have to constantly let go of what needs sloughing off so we can renew ourselves. Nature abhors a vacuum. Complete those unfinished projects and delete the old stale worn-out parts of your life now. You’ll create space to attract what you really do want in your life, and you’ll have the energy and vitality to make the most of 2018.